As someone who cleaned out their text history before getting in the car today, I'm getting a kick

Thats why I use the Blackberry to communicate with the mistress, and the iPhone with the wife.

/Tell the wife the 'berry is for work.

If ya can't keep yer pants on at least keep yer fone off.

Just finger bang your messages in morse code.

I've seen people get caught more by buying gifts other people weren't supposed to find out about. I knew one dumbass that left his gifts for his other wife in the trunk of the first wife's car and another who left receipts laying around.

To avoid suspicion, I just text pics of my junk to everyone.

This thread should be epic, a bunch of guys who can't get one woman pointing and laughing at guys who get caught trying to keep 2.

FTFA:It is meant to be a time of peace and love. But Christmas Day has become the day of the year when unfaithful husbands are most likely to be caught out, according to one of Britain's top divorce lawyers.

and:

But the other thing we find a lot is that there are a lot of text message 'bustings' on Christmas Day, usually because the husband leaves the phone around and the mistress is sending messages.

also:

Husbands will go off and call the mistress and then the wife will wonder where they were or who they were calling, they will either find the number on there or the text message.
It's interesting to note that wives in England don't cheat on their husbands.

Amos Quito: To avoid suspicion, I just text pics of my junk to everyone.

So, you're the one I have on text block. Nice to meet you.

gadian: I've seen people get caught more by buying gifts other people weren't supposed to find out about. I knew one dumbass that left his gifts for his other wife in the trunk of the first wife's car and another who left receipts laying around.

Or, ordering something online, and the company calls you at home.
"Hi! This is Mary from Victoria's Secret. For being such a frequent customer, we'd like to offer you..."

oops

Gotfire: Just finger bang your messages in morse code.


Approves.

Lar Jorgen: It's interesting to note that wives in England don't get caught cheating on their husbands.


Subtle difference.

Digitalstrange: This thread should be epic, a bunch of guys who can't get one woman pointing and laughing at guys who get caught trying to keep 2.

If you do not want it, what's she doing in your home?
Wanting two or more is like slamming your hand in the car door.

I bought a girlfriend a Victorias Secret gift certificate one Christmas.
Then my wife wondered why I kept getting Victorias Secret catalogs in the mail.
I blamed it on signing up for a few free magazines online.

/no longer have the girlfriend, the wife or money

Petit_Merdeux: Lar Jorgen: It's interesting to note that wives in England don't get caught cheating on their husbands.


Subtle difference.

Good point!

MorteDiem: I bought a girlfriend a Victorias Secret gift certificate one Christmas.
Then my wife wondered why I kept getting Victorias Secret catalogs in the mail.
I blamed it on signing up for a few free magazines online.

/no longer have the girlfriend, the wife or money

I find that it's easier to not cheat and just be miserable. At least this way, I know that I can keep my money. And, maybe I can buy a wave runner. People that have those are always happy.

Amos Quito: To avoid suspicion, I just text pics of my junk to everyone.

brilliant!

gadian: I've seen people get caught more by buying gifts other people weren't supposed to find out about. I knew one dumbass that left his gifts for his other wife in the trunk of the first wife's car and another who left receipts laying around.

Utah?

My wife asked for my mistress' phone number in case of emergency.
My wife is cool.

I don't send text messages, but I do receive them. No biatch better let me catch her snoopin' in my business!!

Having a mistress is easy. Try having 2 girlfriends, each one thinking they are the only one. Holidays are a mess. Birthday is worse.

/wasn't me; watched a friend do it
//he lasted 10 months
///waaaay too much work

Whenever I'm out with friends, my wife usually send me a text telling me not to sleep with any sluts. I always tell her they will be fine, upstanding, Christian women.

Amos Quito: To avoid suspicion, I just text pics of my junk to everyone.

And I wish you'd stop already.

sloshed_again: Digitalstrange: This thread should be epic, a bunch of guys who can't get one woman pointing and laughing at guys who get caught trying to keep 2.

If you do not want it, what's she doing in your home?
Wanting two or more is like slamming your hand in the car door.

Way to assume. I am not married currently and never cheated on my wife while I was. Cheated once in my life on a girlfriend who had already cheated on me. As you can imagine it wasn't a healthy relationship.

Being single as the result of a breakup that happened after my girlfriend (she's the one who introduced me to Fark) started cheating on me days before Christmas last year, I wish cheaters nothing but heartache and misery in 2013!

How time marches on.

Back in my day the only thing you'd have to worry about was the dreaded 'reply all' mistake (true story--a prof at a big time college did the 'reply all' thing to his grad student mistress, and instead of telling her that his wife was out of town and to get ready for sweaty sexytime he told the entire faculty and student body) heh heh.

jayphat: As someone who cleaned out their text history before getting in the car today, I'm getting a kick

Deleting them from your phone doesn't delete them from the phone company's records. FYI.

StopLurkListen: jayphat: As someone who cleaned out their text history before getting in the car today, I'm getting a kick

Deleting them from your phone doesn't delete them from the phone company's records. FYI.

True. But the evidence needs a subpoena or third party request to be obtained.

quartercomma: true story--a prof at a big time college did the 'reply all' thing to his grad student mistress, and instead of telling her that his wife was out of town and to get ready for sweaty sexytime he told the entire faculty and student body

Wait, why was she CCing the entire campus on her message? Sounds like someone noticed his "reply all" habit and decided to work it into her revenge plans.

FROM:    a­stud­ent­eg­el­locedu
TO:      p­rofes­s­o­rcoxman­egelloc­e­du
CC:      everybody.list
SUBJ:    meeting

Dear Professor Coxman,

What will be the subject of our review session that you've scheduled for your house at 8:00 tonight?

Professionally,
Your graduate student

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FROM:    p­rofes­s­o­rcoxman­egelloc­e­du
TO:      [reply-all]
SUBJ:    RE: meeting

The subject will be your spankable little ass, my dear! And you've been a very naughty pupil and will need many spankings tonight, ho ho! Seriously, though, you're going to want to bring Astroglide.

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FROM:    dean­wor­meregellocedu
TO:      p­rofes­s­o­rcoxman­egelloc­e­du
SUBJ:    RE: RE: meeting

Cox-MAAAAAAAAAANNNNNN!!!

My ex-girlfriend said that it would be okay to have sex with other people, which only made me suspicious. I came to find out after we broke up that, before our relationship, she was a cum dumpster who took money for sex. So, my guess is that she felt so guilty about lying to me about her past and deciding that she couldn't have sex with me that she thought this would make up for it.

I'm glad we didn't end up married.

To me, any type of misrepresentation is wrong. Don't just get into a situation that will hurt another because it's "comfortable" to you. Move past being a five year-old maturity-wise and be honest with other people in your relationships or don't have them.

/Merry Christmas

This is why I made sure my wife and girlfriend knew each other and liked each other in bed.

Long Live the King

Crap, now I'm kinda nervous. I don't *think* my gf will try texting me, but if she does, it could end up ruining Christmas for the kids. Better "misplace" my phone for the day.

Ordinary Genius: I find that it's easier to not cheat and just be miserable. At least this way, I know that I can keep my money. And, maybe I can buy a wave runner. People that have those are always happy.

I am hoping for an ATV myself. I want something I can ride year round.

There was an airline in the early 70's that f'd up big time. A promotion was run for business class tickets where it was a buy one/get one free assuming the wives would be taken with on a business trip. What was awesome in the history of failed promotions was sending a "thank you" card a couple of weeks after the trip was made addressed to the wife saying that they hoped that she enjoyed the trip.

The Green Intern: This is why I made sure my wife and girlfriend knew each other and liked each other in bed.

That works til the family of either of them wants to come over for holiday dinner or something.

Digitalstrange: This thread should be epic, a bunch of guys who can't get one woman pointing and laughing at guys who get caught trying to keep 2.

I've got a woman, at least until we're done, then I get to throw her back. It's a thing.

I would never, ever, have to worry about those four fights. They're for richers who have nothing better to fight about.

Now, anybody trying to eat both crusty ends of the meat loaf, without me having at least 1 of them, that there's an ass whoopin.

Tumunga: I would never, ever, have to worry about those four fights.

I think you want this thread:

http://www.fark.com/comments/7503247/ Four-common-holiday-fights-how-y o u-can-avoid-them-Or-start-them-if-Chri stmas-has-gotten-dull-no-one-has -found-Baileys-Because-its-not-Christm as-until-someone-leaves-in-tears

(Wow, Fark comment links can be long).

This thread... well, I think it speaks for itself.

Whenever I'm out with friends, my wife usually send me a text telling me not to sleep with any sluts. I always tell her they will be fine, upstanding, Christian women.

I'm stealing this.

Whenever I'm out with friends, my wife usually send me a text telling me not to sleep with any sluts. I always tell her they will be fine, upstanding, Christian women.

One of my co-workers was a fundie. His 20% salary contributions kept the church open. While driving the family to a new job over Xmas break, she waited until they were in Colorado to break the news to him that she had gotten onto a "dating site" and had slept with 50+ guys while he was away for three months. He turned the car around and dropped her off at her parent's home, stating why. I gave him his old job back while they worked things out, but what I will never forget is the anguish in his voice as he said to me "I could handle the golf pro, the (fireman)? but a lawyer?

exvaxman: One of my co-workers was a fundie. His 20% salary contributions kept the church open. While driving the family to a new job over Xmas break, she waited until they were in Colorado to break the news to him that she had gotten onto a "dating site" and had slept with 50+ guys while he was away for three months. He turned the car around and dropped her off at her parent's home, stating why. I gave him his old job back while they worked things out, but what I will never forget is the anguish in his voice as he said to me "I could handle the golf pro, the (fireman)? but a lawyer?

Jesus Christ. What an awful person.

Most people cheat when they stop caring about their current relationship. They are just too chicken to end it until something else comes along. Their apathy along with laziness and stupidity is why they get caught.

I've got more respect for someone who cheats successfully than one who cheats and gets caught.

'How was I supposed to know that my girlfriend might look at my cell phone? I mean, I couldn't have seen that coming!'

If you suspect your SO is cheating, then he/she probably is, and has been for a while.

I knew someone who suspected his fiance of cheating, and he was telling me about his keyloggers that record everything typed on a computer, and I was like "Dude, its over. If you're seriously thinking about buying one of those, you already have your answer."

I have a sure-fire way to avoid getting caught when I cheat on my wife.

I don't cheat.

LDM90: MorteDiem: I bought a girlfriend a Victorias Secret gift certificate one Christmas.
Then my wife wondered why I kept getting Victorias Secret catalogs in the mail.
I blamed it on signing up for a few free magazines online.

/no longer have the girlfriend, the wife or money

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I was going to go for the who Nelson from the Simpson's "Haa haaa!" bit, but that works great too.

KiwDaWabbit: My ex-girlfriend said that it would be okay to have sex with other people, which only made me suspicious. I came to find out after we broke up that, before our relationship, she was a cum dumpster who took money for sex. So, my guess is that she felt so guilty about lying to me about her past and deciding that she couldn't have sex with me that she thought this would make up for it.

I'm glad we didn't end up married.

To me, any type of misrepresentation is wrong. Don't just get into a situation that will hurt another because it's "comfortable" to you. Move past being a five year-old maturity-wise and be honest with other people in your relationships or don't have them.

/Merry Christmas

You sound like a the best kind of person in real life.

I never said that I was perfect or even a good person.

However, if a person goes around doing shiatty things to people, hurting them deeply, and always having the excuse "gee, I'm only human", then, yeah, I have a problem with that.

Got caught by modern technology and being lazy. Against all odds, she took me back.

Having cell phone/email and cheating on your spouse means sleeping with one eye open.